(轉)不要讓別人決定你的行為！別讓情緒控制你了！

(轉)不要讓別人決定你的行為！別讓情緒控制你了！
一個老伯賣著報紙。

向他買完的顧客，

總會抱怨。

為什麼？

他總是冷口冷臉，不發一語。

甚至於　有時候會不耐煩的翻著白眼

這天。。

跟著我室友一起去買報紙～

他堅持要去阿伯那兒買！　　（可能比較近吧）

阿伯看起來　一樣不開心的樣。

買完　室友禮貌的向阿伯說了一聲　謝謝！

『　這家夥態度很差，不是嗎？　』我們繼續前行時，我問道

《　他每天晚上都是這樣的。　》室友說

『　那你為什麼還對他那麼客氣？　』

《　為什麼我要讓他決定我的行為？　》



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一個成熟的人握住自己快樂的鑰匙。

他不期待別人使他快樂

反而能將快樂跟幸福帶給別人。

記住！

不成熟的人讓情緒控制自己

而成熟的人是讓自己控制情緒。

心是自己的，心情也是自己的，

應該要有能力控制住自己的心情

而不要把心情交給別人了！

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